Ten year blogiversary and I’m buying one of YOU a gift!

A few weeks ago when I was writing a different entry, I realized with a shock that the tenth anniversary of my blog was coming up. I can’t believe it’s been ten years already. I really had no idea when I found Blogger and wrote my very first post that I’d still be at it ten years on and I surely hadn’t a clue how it would change my life, either.

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My original home

Through writing here (well, here and there, if we’re being literal), I gained so much confidence and made friends from far-flung places like Australia, Scotland, Iceland, and North Carolina. While I still battle with depression and diabetes, through my writing I know that I’m not alone even if I’m the only one in the room at the time. My blog gave me a sense of pride when pride was something I could only vaguely remember from before I started gaining weight. I have traveled to several blog conferences, learned more about how to hone my writing, and have picked back up the photography hobby I had forgotten about since I was 12. And now my blog is serving as my accountability partner, an integral part of Project Me, my one year quest to improve the quality of my life.

And it all started with a single blog post.

In honor of this auspicious occasion, I’m giving one lucky reader a Fitbit Zip activity tracker. If you’ve been around for a while, you’ll know how much I love my Fitbit activity tracker and Aria scale – they are both indispensable tools as I transform my body and my life, so it seems to me only fitting that I celebrate ten years of blogging by giving one of my readers the chance to transform their body, too, and perhaps their life as well.

To enter, just use the giveaway widget below. The raffle will close at 12:00 am EDT next Friday, April 12, 2013. Good luck!

ETA: And the winner is…my sweet friend, Greta Funk. I’ve contacted Greta to find out which color Fitbit she’d like and where to send.

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Finally, I want to thank you – whether you’ve been reading here for years or if this is your first visit – because it’s knowing that you’re here that brings me to my keyboard to put my thoughts out into the world. Without you, there would be no blog or at least the blog wouldn’t be nearly as much fun.

Here’s to another ten or so years!

I get by with a little help from my (blog) friends

In the old days, when this blog was shiny and new (nearly 10 years ago now), there was no Facebook, no Twitter, no Pinterest, no Instagram – there was email and there was your blog. I don’t remember who left the first comment on my blog but I remember vividly how my heart lurched with pride when I saw that comment in my email. I suppose there was a way to track your traffic back then – I think SiteMeter was up and running then – but I didn’t have anything like that, so the comment was the first way that I ever knew anyone had read my blog. I am smiling now, all these years later, just thinking of it.

I do, very distinctly, though, remember on whose site I left my very first comment – it was Lori’s original blog, Tales of a Bathroom Scale. She was pretty and funny and talented, and enough like me that I just knew we’d be best friends if we didn’t live cross the continent from each other. We were single, we both had cats, and we were losing weight and blogging about it. A lot. (I don’t know how or why I used to post as much as I did but I can’t imagine doing so now.) And then both of us met boys who made our hearts flutter and we married them. So we blog a lot less now but we’ve never lost touch.

We’d been corresponding recently via Twitter about the Old School Weight Loss blogging club we’re going to form – in our spare time, mind you! – and chatting about the various weight loss badges we would award to members as they met various random goals. This morning I woke to find this slice of Heaven in my email inbox:

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And that, simply put, friends, is why I love her so much: she’s just the sweetest, most talented, most clever girl on the Internet.

Yes, blogging has evolved light years from where it used to be but some truths are unchanging. We all write in solitude and hope that someone will come along and read what we’ve written. But sometimes, when we’re very, very lucky, we also find a true friend along the way.

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So much for keeping up with the regular blogging, eh? I’m chalking it up to the terrible sadness that accompanied the end of Blogger Road Trip 2012 and leaving Shauna behind. Sniffle, sniffle. I’ll be alright eventually but I still hate that I can’t just say something silly to hear her laugh as we’re getting ready to go out.

I want to write something clever and insightful but I don’t think I have it in me right now. Since my return to the real world I’ve been consumed with work and my volunteer obligations, neither of which makes me feel in the slightest bit clever or insightful. Still I’m fairly certain this funk (code word for depression) will pass and I’ve been composing a post in my head about my joining Weight Watchers – which I did last Saturday morning – and why I have been binge eating as a result. Perhaps over the weekend it will make it from my head to this page.

Fabulously good news is that Lori is back to blogging at her original site. After meeting her in person I am even more convinced than before that her great writing and amazing design sense are an unbeatable combination and should be enjoyed by everyone, so do go over and give her a read (if you haven’t already).

Blogger Road Trip 2012 and FitBloggin’

I have had the most amazing week and my head is swimming with the goodness of it all. I need to process some of the bigger stuff but I want to write something quickly to capture some of the magic for posterity.

  • Meeting Marla and Lori for the first time in real life was incredible. I love both of them so much and to be in the same room with them only reinforced that
  • Spending a day with Jennette was great. She’s so smart and so generous with her knowledge that you almost – but not quite – forget that she’s suffered with a headache for over four years. (Four years!) Thanks, Jennette, for the tour of Chapel Hill, and especially for showing us where John Edwards slunk off to after Elizabeth threw his cheating self out of the house
  • Chatting with Carla. She is an amazing mother and human being, and I am blessed to count her as a friend
  • Meeting Sheryl, Robin, Mara, Karen, Jess, and Cynthia was such a treat – they are all creative, warm, and wonderful writers, so give them a read today if you haven’t already done so
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Words feel inadequate to describe what a week with Shauna was like. We laughed a lot, we drank a lot of coffee and some tea, too, we listened to 80s pop rock for hours, and we talked a lot about life and love and health. If I had a sister, I’d want her to be just like Shauna. I miss her already and know that a little piece of my heart will be in Scotland until we meet up again. (You know what’s sad, though? I don’t have a single picture of the two of us together. Seriously. If you are reading this and you have such a picture, would you send it along? Please and thank you.)

I’m off to the lab for my regularly scheduled blood work. Oh boy, I’m sure this will be good!

Meeting old friends for the first time

This blogging-every-day thing is not easily picked back up, friends – I’d much rather be drifting off to sleep in the super comfy canopy bed in our lovely room at the Front Street Inn, but it takes three weeks to make a new habit and I’ve only got seven days, so here goes.

Today was amazing! Why?

  1. Got to spend lots of quality time with Shauna.
  2. Met Marla and her husband. (She’s wonderful.)
  3. Met Lori and her husband. (She’s also wonderful and is the woman behind the wildly popular Tales of the Bathroom Scale.)

Marla made us a lovely home cooked breakfast before taking us on a tour of her warm, inviting home. We met her husband and her cat, and saw the office from which she blogs. It was a great start to the day.

After a brief 2-1/2 hour drive, we pulled up outside Lori’s adorable cottage-style home. Yes, it’s really as adorable as it looks in the pictures she posts! We said hello to the cats, saw some new kittens on the porch, and then went downtown for coffee and a fun chat. Later on we met Lori and her husband for dinner at the tasty Deluxe restaurant where the food and service were both excellent.

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Deluxe restaurant in Wilmington, North Carolina

It has been a great first day of Blogger Road Trip 2012 and we still have loads more to see and do!

Is this all there is?

I’m not even going to apologize for not having written in what feels like forever, I’m just going to write about my life. If that’s not OK, you might want to surf along.

I’ll be honest with you: I’m fed up. I’ve thought and thought about what to do with this blog – I’ve even had my finger hovering over the “Delete” key more than a few times – and I was still ruminating on that topic when Shauna and I went to dinner tonight.

[Did I mention Shauna and I have just begun Blogger Road Trip 2012? Oh yes! The two of us are going to spend several days tootling around North Carolina visiting some of our favorite old school bloggers and seeing interesting sights.]

So I was chatting at dinner with Shauna and mentioned my blog dilemma for which she had the perfect solution: just write something. Really? Could it be that simple? Could blogging be something that I get back into the habit of doing and then it stops being such a chore?

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I think we need to run a little experiment and what better time than while I’m away from home for a week and attending a blog conference Friday through Sunday to see what it’s like to write something here every day. So that’s what I’m going to do – every day this week I’ll come and write about what I’ve done, without trying to sound like someone else or write in a certain style, just me and my thoughts.

 

Write something

Nearly every day I think about blogging – want to blog, even – and yet I’m not here. I have this almost physical need to write but the words just won’t come. Actually, the words will come just fine once I come up with a topic but I just don’t seem to have enough interesting topics to write about and I don’t want to just come here to spill my guts over and over, so it’s tough.

For today, I just want to write something – ANYthing – so I’m going to share my thoughts about a book that I recently finished and hope that you’ll find it entertaining.

Dinner: A Love Story: It all begins at the family table by Jenny Rosenstrach is the best cookbook I’ve read in years and has inspired me to cook several times since reading. (And you know that’s a remarkable feat!) What inspired me was the way the author weaves her stories of life and love as the mother of a busy, modern family throughout the narrative, including details such as how and when her family discovered a particular recipe or how she modifies it for her daughters. There are lovely photos of the finished product as well as the author and her family cooking them, and so much friendly encouragement to just give it a try that I couldn’t help myself.

The two recipes that I’ve tried so far are the Porcupine Meatballs and the Bourbon-Marinated Grilled Pork Tenderloin (accompanied by the Grilled Peaches, as recommended by the author) and they are both yummy and simple. (I’ll let you know that if you, like me, use brown rice in the meatball recipe, you’ll need to increase the amount of braising liquid and also the cooking time – should be about an hour unless you want crunchy rice.) As with all of Rosenstrach’s recipes, these both feature blessedly short ingredient lists of mostly easy to find items – simple and inexpensive. Best of all, they taste great and made me want to cook again.

Have you read any good books lately, cookbooks or otherwise? Do you have a “can’t miss” recipe to share? I await your brilliance.

Indulgently indolent

After a long period of “go, go, GO”, this weekend I’m not going anywhere.

What am I doing?

  • Reading (with the Kindle app on my iPad)
  • Napping (whoever came up with the idea to curl up and sleep in the middle of the day should have a day – or week – named for them; genius)
  • Tweeting and re-tweeting
  • Bare minimum of laundry so that we can get by next week

I did have a brief burst of activity yesterday when I got the batteries changed on a bunch of watches that haven’t worked for about a year (yes I still wore them – they’re decorative even when non-functional, sort of like me), did a phone consultation with a designer who is going to make this space a little more “me”, dropped off electronic waste and paper products to be shredded at the Earth Day event at work (where I also picked up the package from Eloquii that was waiting for me), and went to see Salmon Fishing in the Yemen at our local movie theater (it’s good).

What’s on the agenda for tomorrow? Not really sure, to be honest. More napping and reading will definitely make appearances and I’d also like to drive over to the coast (where it’s cooler) for some quality time with my camera. I picked up a macro lens over a month ago and still haven’t ventured out with it, so no better time than the present, right?

It might be time to think about dinner. Of course I could also take another little nap. (Yawn.)

One thing leads to another

We’ve all heard the saying before – one thing leads to another – and I’m seeing evidence of its truth in my own life.

Six weeks ago I was tired and uninspired. I had lost a key opportunity with the Junior League because I didn’t receive enough votes from the membership, and that made me feel old and unappreciated. My plan was to either apply for sustainer status (kind of like going into retirement) or quit entirely. My blog shamed me every day by my lack of posting and lack of any desire to do something about it. Then came Blissdom and new friends, new ideas, and a new confidence in myself that I barely recognize.

Now I want to post, want to write. I feel that tingle at the base of my brain that says, “go, create something.” I love taking photos with my new camera and I feel like a photographer instead of just someone who messes around with my camera.

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I have wanted to move my blog to its own URL forever but never got around to it until some anonymous Internet company had already taken lottalatte.com and that made me very, very sad. Then, last week, Mick came to me with a huge smile on his.face and told me he’d bought my URL for me for our anniversary, and I knew it was time to make the change.

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” ― Anaïs Nin

I will always love my original blog because it was where I remembered the joy of writing again, but i want the ability to expand and do different things – maybe not now, but one day – and this framework will make that easier. So I hope that friends who have been reading me for a few (or more) years will come and visit, and I hope that a few new people might find me and stay awhile, too.

So, what do you think of the new digs? Suggestions for improvement are gratefully accepted so send a comment if you think of something I can do better.